Self confidence is the first secret of success, it is not only the confidence in my abilities, but also to their pursuit of the target firm belief. With it, to sail the other shore to the victory. When the Chinese revolution is at a low ebb, Mao Zedong " sparks of fire, fire "; when the enemy 's capture of night, Chen Yi " has not take off ", he confidently, singing " bloody ", should be life " see for yourself all over the world "! Chen Yi's " three chapter " Meiling is shocking confidence song, song of victory! The famous scientist Mendeleev said: " only the self-confidence, can let the human in the best mental state, without being suspected ingestion of your imagination ". Socrates also said: " whether a person is successful, just to see if he has self-respect and self-confidence. " In conclusion, confident to win navigation tower, is an inexhaustible motive force for progress.
Inferiority and self-confidence draw further apart. Inferior to others often see too much, too heavy, and on their own strengths understanding insufficiency, only to feel nothing, and don't want to try to catch up with, so heavy psychological pressure to make these people be a yes-man, come to a standstill. Inferior mental barriers limiting capacity development, so that they gave away a good chance of success, without a single success eventually. Out of the shadow in front of inferiority, must be a sunny day! Whether it is " a Buddism godness Guanyin Bodhisattva " or the " Spotlight " dancing in a miracle, the actors in the faith and fate, overcome inferiority complex, their electrifying performance won the applause from the audience, loved by the people. Visible, conquer self-abased, foster self-confidence, is our inevitable choice.
Conceited and confidence will be misfits. Pride and inferiority are extreme psychological, conceited in some achievements after pleased with oneself, even be overbearing supercilious. These people even previously made some achievements, but also just flower briefly as the broad-leaved epiphyllum history lesson is worth us to remember in mind. When war with Xiang Yu to overthrow the Qin, exposed the cruel rule of the struggle played a role should not be underestimated, but a temporary military advantage makes him blind arrogance, self-styled " overlord ", the Liu Bang was defeated, the former can not be considered heroes, was cut in Wujiang. When the Three Kingdoms Cao Mengde with broken halberds defeat, overlying the army at Chibi, it is a vain cause failures. Therefore, the correct evaluation of their strengths and achievements, face their own weaknesses and shortcomings, to draw the boundaries of confidence and conceit, a successful person is really important.
How to treat the self-confidence, inferiority, ego, which is full of dialectics. We have to believe in yourself, but not conceited; to face the inadequacy, actually does not feel inferior. Choice of confidence, overcome self-abased, away from the ego, which is the requirement of the new century, is the pursuit of the perfect personality requirements. " For truly great men, still see today ", Mao Zedong confident saying, will always inspire us to move forward.